This blog is a personal, non-commercial endeavor on my part i.e. you will not find any adverts, paid product placements or endorsements on this blog. Any thoughts, opinions, intentions, plans or strategies conveyed here are my own.

Note, posts are chronological; as a result of personal self-improvement efforts, my knowledge, thoughts, and opinions change. Views expressed within out-of-date posts may not be the same, nor even similar, to those I may hold today.

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You may recognize typos or errors in my articles. English is not my native language. These articles are translated with the help of Google's translation, not by some company or a commercialized publication. So, please don't whine about any typos you might see. If you found some articles difficult to understand, you can help by pointing out any grammatical errors. As I improve my writing skills, I will update and publish more articles.

About Me

I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious ~ Albert Einstein

I discovered the Game at the end of 2007. My goal is to become significantly better with my self and consequently with women, to be able to express the value that I have into my life and to see the reflection of that in my surroundings. This blog contains accounts and reflections of my trip, the lessons, the glory, the passion, and the inevitable lows and roadblocks along the way.

Welcome to the journey!

About the Blog

"The Player's Inn" is a blog that explores the psychology and relationships of men and women. A blog that is exactly the opposite of the most books or other PU products out there. It's a map that can help you to don't get lost by the so many useless "theories" the guys who want some quick and easy money are spread.

I want to congratulate you for visiting this blog and I would suggest you to continue reading it because I can imagine that you want the best of your life. This means you want to take your life in your hands and that shows you have courage.

Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

BEFORE YOU START THE HATING COMMENTS OR EMAILS: I am neither a psychologist nor a master in the relationships. I am a guy who at some point of his life decided to leave the "geeky" life and to improve himself. On the way, I was looking more for psychology, improving my sexuality, and dealing with those issues, rather than just searching "how to talk with women" topic that most people sell.

Once I've managed to improve myself and overcome any fears, old ideas and habits, I think you can help yourself too.

However, I am not a omniscient and, of course, NOT always correct. I make mistakes too, and you can tell me about mistakes I made in the comments in a calm way, before starting the "ha, I'm smarter than you commenting. If you don't like a topic, do not stop here. Do your own research and find your own answer to the topic that interests you.

Remember that writing here is the result of endless hours of reading and approaches/tests on random women in the field, either in clubs/bars or anywhere else.

The composition of the articles is my own interpretation of the events I have so far encountered. I try not to type "how to win her by doing this" or "what to say to her," and when it comes to some research, I'm posting researches and always I add the link for further research on your own.

If you think something is missing or something has not been covered on my part, contact me. The blog will change form or composition, depending on how I believe it's better.

Also remember this, as it refers to this blog, are purely my own opinions, thoughts, and experiences. At no point, I can guarantee that everything will "work" for you too if you do not work for yourself.

This blog started as a personal blog about seduction and pick up related stuff, based on my own experiences. But I decided to add more stuff interested to men, while continuously keeping the main idea about seduction, relationships, and pickup.

A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects. ~ Robert A. Heinlein

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