This article is about a video that is on the internet and has many views (1.5ml). In the video you will see a guy, “opening” chicks with the line “Hey, I like you“. This video, even though I knew about it, was sent to me by some followers of the blog asking for my opinion, so I thought to make post about it, so I can refer to them here.
Before continuing, let’s watch the video:
So in this video we see a guy, approaching some women in a straightforward way. In fact, at the beginning of the video, we see him ‘game’ a girl with success, while in the next few attempts he does not go so well (the rest do not have the same impressiveness and behavior as the first woman), but they do not avoid him (some of them gave him their number).
If you remember, I had written a few articles before that women do not like the cold approach, especially on the streets and that only some of them will accept your approach (it’s like playing “lotto”), as opposed to the instructions of the PUAs who tells you that the most women will accept this kind of approach because they are impressed (according to PUAz, your looks doesn’t matter, as long as you approach them by natural-brutal-direct method, women will fall into your arms directly because… you are the “man” they always dreamed about).
I also wrote that women consider you hopeless, if you approach them cold, while they are more open to be approached by people who they already like and not by everyone (I will say more below), while again I said that if women like you, they will give you the green light themselves to approach them (they will look you constantly) and such opinions came against the theories of the community.
You could say that based on the above video, my opinions are 100% wrong. That just any man, with such a straightforward approach, he could win almost as many chicks as he approaches, so it does not matter your looks, is only the direct approach that counts and women will love your approach (Regardless of the guy on the video who is not ugly, we overlook it for the community’s needs, the importance of natural-direct approach and nothing else matters).
So, all of the men are sitting and dealing with theories and motives, but they did not think the simplest: Because a woman went out for shopping or is alone at that time, it doesn’t mean that she would automatically fall into your arms because you act like a “natural”, or you are in “mood/state”.
So, you believe that women are some kind of robots, where we have only to “press their buttons” and they will fall into our arms, they have no standards, no values, no mind, etc. All man can blame, for example, a woman who didn’t want to do something with a guy (she called bitch, etc.), but they do not think that she just did not want to do something with that particular guy. “No, I’m PUA and she must love me, that’s it“.
Let’s also look at the uncut version of the above video and I will continue the comment below:
In this video, the reality is somewhat different from the original video. The same guy, the same day, in exactly the same way of approaching and as you saw, most of the women he approached, avoided him. Some women said that they had a girlfriend, others that did not know him, and others ignored him completely.
Also, when I saw the uncut version of the video, it was strange to me how so many people were impressed by his style and they were sharing this video constantly, since as you can hear, he says the line “I like you” stuttering (unless if he do it as a technique). This makes me think that the average “player’s” game style is below average if they were impressed by this style…
This article is not to make men stopping daygame, but to show you the reality (or even comment on the 1st video as I have been asked for). The point is that I want to show some things that, from the hype that has been created around the cold approach, the world has overlooked and certainly has not noticed.
Here I want you to think about something. Compare the above video (and the video with the Germans asking women how women prefer men to approach them [Link]) and see that women’s reactions are the same. Now watch a random PUA video on Youtube and see that their approaches are the same (I mean in the style/comfort/line). What’s the difference?
The difference is that the PUAs are trying to show you that they can win women (usually hiring them for their videos, but this is another story), for money or fame, while in fact they getting the same reactions. Which means that most women’s reaction to a cold approach on the streets is everywhere the same.
In the video below, you can see that in fact none of them managed to seduce any woman. I chose Sasha’s video because I consider him as a legit. Two men that have very long time in the game, they are instructors, they are good looking and not ugly. But, wait, doesn’t the direct approach make women “react positively” even on the streets??? Especially when if you ask her “the meaning of life” on the street, as Sasha did and received the corresponding answer (at 5′). Oh, come on, “the meaning of life”? On the streets? Really???
Now about our looks I mentioned in a previous article. It is not a wrong proposition on my part, nor do I forget that I am one of the first who promoted the direct method in the community when most of them promoted Mystery’s method. Neither have my opinions changed about alpha males and alpha game.
I know firsthand that a good game can override the looks (I took about 40 pounds on purpose to prove it to myself when I started the serious game). However, I also know very well that getting a good level of inner game requires a lot of work and effort from your part, a problem that most people do not like and they are choosing the easy way (Neanderthal-Brutal type of game -my a$$).
So, to improve your appearance, as you will read about it from this blog many times, it concerns if not all, surely the newest people of the community (even the inner-game hardcore fans do not go out without dedicate enough time to their appearance, no matter what they say, most who are “stuck” to an idea and do not accept other views, are the most hypocritical).
Improving your appearance can bring you to the next level much faster than trying to approach a lot of women daily in order to build your confidence. Improving your appearance can give you a boost in your self-confidence much faster than multiple approaches. Later you can choose to build a strong inner game, but for the beginning you can improve your appearance, it is your shortcut to be liked by more women and get the green light to approach them.