Mystery method? Better not.

Many people have begun using the Mystery Method, a method that uses routines and lines, from approaching to closing with a woman.

But is a method i do not recommend someone to use. I have seen his latest releases on materials and I can not say that I am impressed. I’m not saying that Mystery’s advises are bad. In fact, Mystery Method is the best method, if you understand the psychology behind the routines and techniques. Mystery used these techniques in order to be understandable from geeks and nerds. In time, he will be remembered as one of the pioneers in modern seduction scene.

What I realized is that you can have better results if you do not use Mystery’s Method, even if has been used a lot and has received many positive comments.

The main problem is that is forces you to have in your mind the M3 model, while you are in the «field». This is a big mistake. If you fall into it, then you are not physical in the field and you will act like a robot. You constantly have in mind how to neg, at what point are you, what to say next, what story you have to say in order to raise your value and so on.

The game should be fun and not something like giving exams, which means to learn something to help yourself and not to read a library of material and canned stuff.

And some instructors with good stuff and some to avoid (in my opinion):
Ross Jeffries: You don’t believe that you can «tweak» a woman’s mind and make her to love you, do you? I like some mind tricks he has on how to be better, but i don’t like the «hooks» and «anchors» he is using.
David Deangelo: He has some good ideas, but he could make his products smaller and not so long in time.
Style: He is not a natural, as he is using canned stuff. In past i have used some of his material, but i am not using anything canned anymore. Besides, my real self is already awesome, why to peddle someone fake?
Hypnotica and Steve P: Very good on inner game.
Vin DiCarlo: I learned a lot from his attraction code and escalation ladder.
Swingcat: Very good advises.
David X: Very good on honesty and how to be a man.
Zack Bauer and Rob Judge: They usually focusing on non-gimmicky pickups and on using good emotions to attract a girl and also to rely on your instinct at the same time. Very good, too.

For NLP:
Richard Bandler, Michael Hall

[Originaly Published on: Mar 1, 2009]