Although I do not recommend negging as a proper move to gain attraction with a girl, i believe though that sometimes negging can be useful.
The logic behind the neg is to say something in order to show to her that you don’t fall for her beauty, or you aren’t attracted to her -yet.
Although I prefer the disqualification from the neg, as i said, it can be useful. After some time, my friend started to have some form of anxiety, because the girl had tough game.
So i tried to play with her. I said to her:
-Me: Nice eyes. I guess you wear contact lenses.
-She: Everything on me is true (while touched me with her hands).
-Me: (Jokingly) Whoa, do not touch me. You have to buy me a drink first, if you want to touch me.
After that, the girl started to behave differently and tried to win me over. But i believe that not many girls will accept always positive the negging. And if a girls loughs at your negs, don’t overdo with this.
Neg is not useful on direct approaches.
[Originaly Published on: Oct 29, 2008]