The Player’s Notes

Before you read more, you need to understand my own perception of the world. We all live in a society that feeds us shit. From our birth to our death, we live to serve the society. They are forcing us to buy expensive clothes and gadgets, wasteful products that we do not need. They have even made us unable to wear something that is not expensive or branded, because it is not simply a “trend”, so you can be “trendy” and have many women. See also this video titled “The Good Consumer” for more information.

  • TV/Music stars have an advantage from you, not because they have money or good looks but because they have already “prove” the society that they deserve to be alpha and confident. They all have to do with how powerful your effect is. If it is too strong, anything you do will be accepted.
  • Are you feel embarrassed if people learn that you want to have sex with a lot of women? Do your parents/friends know about this? This is a blockade caused by the blinkers that society has put us on. Your friends, who are good guys, will try to block your every effort, however.
  • Why do we think about it when we see a beautiful woman coming to our side? We want to stop her and say “Hello”. Why do not do it? Because of the “Approach Anxiety”.
  • We are all scared that women will reject us. Deep down we feel that she is who validates our masculinity.
  • We are living with questions. We make questions so we do not approach a woman. Is hard to approach a beautiful woman.
  • When we are very young, we do what we want without worrying. From school, things are getting harder, as we are constantly comparing ourselves with others.
  • Whatever you want, is out of your safety zone. If it is not, then you already have it.
  • If, without a woman saying a word, we keep saying to ourselves that she want tall, rich, beautiful men etc., she has not rejected us, but we already rejected ourselves and this is bad.
  • Many ask us what “you do for a living”, not to see how much money we are getting, but what idea do we have for ourselves.
  • Do you have a name, a personality, and do you think you have no right to go and talk to her?
  • You have every right to go and say “hello” to her. We are men, not chickens.
  • What kind of women put men on her list of “friends”? Good question, we put ourselves on this list, with the way we talk and act with her.
  • Women’s 5 categories for men
    • 1. This dude is weird. Get away from him.
    • 2. He is totally dull.
    • 3. Good guy, I will keep him as a friend.
    • 4. I would like to have a relationship with him.
    • 5. I want to have sex with him.
  • If a man tells a woman what he wants, then it’s something about him who make her to want to know more about him.
  • Without showing despair, or stuck on her like a leech.
  • Women want men to see them as sexual creatures, not as “girlfriends.”
  • How to be honest? By saying “look, I did not come here to become friends” or you and I can not be just friends“.
  • Your goal is not to be a friend with a woman.
  • If she tells you, “Are you asking me out?” you will say “YES“. If she tells you “why?” you will say “because I like you”.
  • Women want men who know what they want.
  • You are the one who leads a relationship. Not the one who follows it.
  • Do not respond seriously to any offense. It will be a test. Do not even take seriously if you she says something “what did you just said, are you serious?” and say “I’m Sorry“.
  • Be respectful, however, and have fun.
  • For example, tell her “you look very nice/sexy with this dress
  • Do not hide what you want from her. Don’t put yourself down.
  • You should tell her a compliment for her character. Women love the strong men, the men with character, but they want to feel like you care about them. If you get them on the phone or go to see them somewhere and they tell you why you came/took me phone, it is not time for games. Say something of the style “because when you’re next to me, I feel great“.
  • If you call a girl who considers you a “nice guy”, do not be afraid that she can not change her mind. She can, if you act right and be an alpha male. The same applies to the reverse. If she wants you because you are an alpha male, does not mean that if you change and act like a nice guy, she will not change too.
  • Women can not change much on their appearance. They can, however, change their behavior.
  • Never call a woman with a hidden number. If she does not answer, send her a message like “Hi, I’m [X]. Let’s go for a walk when you’re done”. Nobody talks to her like that, they all lie to her, especially if she’s beautiful.
  • A typical message a beautiful woman receives is like Hello, I’m free from Monday to Wednesday, and only from 6-8, because I have a lot of stuff to do and I have another 10 girls waiting in the line”. These are the shit that many “gurus” say to show that they have “life”. Stop using those bullshits, women can smell someone’s insecurity and do not like the liars.
  • In a club, approach a woman you like and say:
    • I like you and I want to meet you
    • I like blond girls and I want to meet you
    • You look great, I want to meet you
    • If she looks at you: Because you look at me like this, we need to know each other
  • After the above, you should start asking more about her. At first, if you are doing well, she will be happy. Do not give her time to start thinking about who this guy is and what he wants or what her friends will say when they see her talking to some random guy. Her attention should be on you.
  • Some girls will not talk to you because her friend(s) are close. So you have to tell her to tell her friend(s) about you. The stupid thing here is that you can not know if you should waste more time with her friend(s) to make them like you or spend your time with her only. Here you should have a good wingman who’s going to keep company to her friend(s).
  • If there are more than 2 girls in a group, you should take her away, when you see that she wants you. Because can not you go deeper with her, if her friends are near. She will feel uncomfortable.
  • There can also be a man in the group. It may not have sex with any girl, but he will damage your game (or he will try to mess with you). Judge him before approach the girl you like. If he’s a beta, then don’t talk to him at all.
  • When two girls look towards the bar, then go behind them and pull them off the shoulder to turn (both of them or the one you like). This is where many people are afraid to do it. And to do it, you have to be relaxed and confident. If she say “why you bother me>“, say something Because I like you and I want to meet you.
  • Tell her she has an amazing smile. They love it.
  • Her friends, if they see that she is like you, they will try to stop her, especially if they are ugly. Just take a look at them like you are saying “stop and let us alone” and they’ll do it.
  • If she’s alone, then do NOT just go next to her, stay there a little or order a drink and then talk to her. She will understand you and turn off. Just go straight and direct.
  • Do not think that if you kiss her at the club, you already win her. Do not already act like you two have a relationship for years and do not expect to come with you the next day, if you just kissed her. You should continue your game and not “drop” your weapons just because you kissed her.
  • Do not ask to buy her drink when you approach her for the first time. “Can I buy you a drink?” is something she already heard for at least 2000 times.
  • Do not be afraid of her and do not judge her by her appearance. A “10” is just a beautiful girl with lots of makeup.