Previously, when someone who did not have a lot of friends or he did not participate in activities that could bring him close to people and especially to women, the only way to get to know someone was to go out to bars, cafés, parks or clubs.
This was something that the old school players mostly did and the seduction community heavily promoted. What's better than going out and do what men did for years? But the time passes and its changes also affect the game.
As already noted, when a man or a woman wanted to meet their other half, he/she would go out. Especially the women of the big cities, they were going out alone, a sign that they were looking for a man, and this is why in so many PUA theories you read about women alone in bars (no matter if you never see a woman alone in bars today).
So either if a woman was alone or in a set, you knew that they were looking for a man and did not have anywhere else to find him, so you had a good chance of meeting this girl.
Now, this is no longer the case. Social "nets" such as Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, Snapchat and many others 'won' the women. A woman today has so many things to do with herself, like changing her clothes and using makeup so she can take the best selfie and upload it to social media so she can get more likes, and she does not have time for anything else.
The more likes she get, the more her self-esteem skyrockets, and if she does not get the likes she wants, then she goes to 'plan b', with duck faces, a bit more tits or ass, in order to get them. And believe me, in the end, she gets more than expected.
But she has and dozens of men hitting on her and flirting with her almost every day. Players, weirdos, nice guys and desperate men visiting every day her profile to talk with her, comment or like her photos, etc. So she has many men to choose from. And this is something that older women do too, they try to play the game of - modern- love.
So, let's you approach a girl you see on the street or somewhere else. Do you believe that this girl is looking for a man in her life? She's a lonely and desperate girl, so she has to talk with you nicely because she wouldn't talk to another man soon?
NO! She now has hundreds of unanswered or unreadable messages waiting on her - sometimes smarter than her - mobile for her to answer or delete.
So the problem is as follows. You are trying to get dressed well and look as handsome as you can? She already got about 50 photos only this week from men with six packs, "huge" crotches, in a pool of sweat drowning the machine in the gym, hang out at parties, having fun etc.
You are trying to neg her or play hard-to-get to her so she can see that you are not needy and you have options? She already got about 50 photos only that day from men telling her that they love her, they want to make love with her, that she looks sexy, that she is 'goddess', that they want to [email protected] or marry her and many other messages from various types of men, so guess, your neg or your 'game' does nothing to her.
You are trying to play the "caveman" game or the "brutal" guy or what else do you think can make her attracted to you? And (and here is the fun part) on the streets? Only that week she had a few invitations for sex from other - brutal - men, probably more beautiful or rich than you, and she might have had a one-night-stand just a few hours ago with a man she met on Tinder.
So, as you can see, a woman today and especially a woman who is always online can have many "offers", especially if she's very beautiful and she's constantly looking at her phone. In a survey, they found that seven out of ten young people living a virtual reality on Facebook and trying with various fake tricks to raise their value on the internet. In short, your profile on the internet (and particularly on Facebook) is your identity now, your best selling book cover, the tools that tell who you are and what are you doing in your life. Many women prefer to get to know more about you from your profile than anyone else.
Surely a man being able to attract and seduce a woman in real life has an advantage over other men. But this advantage is not something special like it was 5-10 years ago. If you have a nice body and generally you are living your life and constantly upload photos on social media showing that you live your life, then you are automatically "special" and women will start a conversation with you. Women constantly looking for the best man they can f*ck, and this is something that cannot change, but the technology changes the way women are looking for these men.
And one more nail in the coffin for the night game is the financial crisis. Many men and women simply do not have the money they used to have and they just can't go out like the old days (or for many other reasons other than money). People today prefer spending a Saturday night in their home with some friends or even chatting with their online 'friends'. Now people go out just to have some talk with their friends, and this is a problem if a woman you like is among many men and women.
And I'm pretty sure that those who still try and use the 'old' model, that is approaching a girl on streets or in a bar, without giving a try to online game, the advancement will throw them away. The internet may be a good opportunity for those involved in the game, but it has an incredible competition. It's not just about being an alpha male now, because you will not only have to compare with the men she already knows, but you will be compared to hundreds of people who flirting with her online. She now has a lot of options, she no longer has to choose between a few men she knows, but from over 1,000 online "friends".
Surely you can resist this modern craziness and continue meeting women with the classic way, you don't have to worry for the next several years. But at some point it will change, everything will be done online and the same goes for the flirt (or for the sex, who knows?). And app releases like Winks confirms that.